Support in crisis pregnancy

The woman  experiencing crisis pregnancy needs support more than ever. Even if she has been left by her boyfriend, someone in this world could support her to make the right decision to choose life, and she is sure to choose it. Crisis pregnancy is characterized by diversity, inconsistency and a multitude of feelings.Simultaneously a pregnant woman can feel happiness of future maternity, fear and shame. On the same day she could be sure to give birth to baby, but over the time this certainty might seem imaginary and she’ll decide that to have an abortion is the only right way. 

If in your walk of life you meet the woman in crisis pregnancy, remember that you can be the only one person who might support her and help to make the right decision in favour of a baby’s life. 
Below is the example of a crisis pregnancy which resulted in the long-awaited birth of a daughter, despite the fact that at first all have turned their back on Zhenya. 
Her mother, as it often happens, was the only support and encouragement to her and her baby.
 
My story sounds like many other stories of women in crisis, but at the same time it is a story with a happy end.
 
The beginning was very hard. We were dating. I was 19 years old, he was 30 years old. He seemed to be intelligent and strong.
 
I got pregnant. He turned out to care nothing for it.. “This is your problem”!
Miraculously the Lord gave me the strength and wisdom to give birth to the child.
It was very difficult – my boyfriend’s leaving, my parents' lack of understanding, I had neither money nor profession (incomplete higher education), nor health. Nerves, hysterics. I had  been staying in hospital for half of my period of pregnancy  fighting for  my baby’s life. Thank God my mom saw how determined I was and began to help me, otherwise I would not have survived. She is still my main helpmate and darling grandmother. But then I told her: “If you  insist on abortion, I’ll leave home and live in the srteet” And that was TRUE.( and I meant it)
 
The baby’s father only came to the hospital once. Before the child was born. And that’s all. He has never seen her. I don’t think he will.
 
Now some words about the happy end. …
 
When I was pregnant  through pain and despair, I thought about a MIRACLE. The miracle which will make me a creator of new human being who wlll come into this world thanks to me – a unique little person.  He’ll open his eyes, he’ll see the sky, he’ll know me and will love me because he’ll be living  and I will be his mother. I spoke with my baby, somehow I was sure that it  will be a girl and I told her how I loved her…
 
Everything was in my life – problems and troubles, diseases, but I remember feelings when she was born. Every day when I come home from work and my daughter meets me and calls me “Mommy, mommy!” – I have this feeling again and again. Due to my child I am a really happy person. 
 
So my dear, if you feel bad, if you are alone and you are thinking about having the abortion, STOP! Perhaps that is your best gift. Pray! God will help you and reward your suffering. Happiness…  should be deserved and suffered for , then it will be full. And  time heals. And pain will be gone. May you be strong and wise! Health to you and your future children!
 
Zhenya